Rejections tend to impact us more than our successes. As people, we remember our cringe inducing experiences more than that time we got an award for academics or athletics. Is it because feeling rejected hurts more than how earning something feels good?
Whatever it is, SHAPE Magazine says we would be much happier people if we didn't stress about being rejected so much. It makes us forgetful because it uses so much brain space we could using for other things.
Take me for example, I ran for Class of 2009 president. If I lose, I of course will be sad for a while because it's hard to deal with when the C/O 2009 literally rejected you, but you can't dwell, you know. If you dwell, it'll eat you up inside. I mean you are still alive it's really not that big of a deal. People want to see that you are doing well, you can't lie to yourself and even tell them "Everything's fine". EVERYTHING is not fine! You must be mentally healthy as well as physically healthy. So don't worry, be happy.
I hope as president I can keep a smile on your C/O 2009 faces. It'd be my personal goal to cheer you up if there's something going on in your life. Email me if you need an ear to listen or shoulder to cry on. I mean it, you can trust me, nothing that you write will every be seen on the site (unless you want it to), and I promise to give the soundest advice humanly possible. I'll start right now: What doesn't kill you, make you stronger. See? :)
Whatever it is, SHAPE Magazine says we would be much happier people if we didn't stress about being rejected so much. It makes us forgetful because it uses so much brain space we could using for other things.
Take me for example, I ran for Class of 2009 president. If I lose, I of course will be sad for a while because it's hard to deal with when the C/O 2009 literally rejected you, but you can't dwell, you know. If you dwell, it'll eat you up inside. I mean you are still alive it's really not that big of a deal. People want to see that you are doing well, you can't lie to yourself and even tell them "Everything's fine". EVERYTHING is not fine! You must be mentally healthy as well as physically healthy. So don't worry, be happy.
I hope as president I can keep a smile on your C/O 2009 faces. It'd be my personal goal to cheer you up if there's something going on in your life. Email me if you need an ear to listen or shoulder to cry on. I mean it, you can trust me, nothing that you write will every be seen on the site (unless you want it to), and I promise to give the soundest advice humanly possible. I'll start right now: What doesn't kill you, make you stronger. See? :)
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